Dr. Gary Chapman says one of the most sobering questions he ever asked himself was: “What if my child turns out to be just like me?”

What if they have the same work ethic that I have?

What if they handle anger the way I do?

What if they treat their spouse the way I treat mine?

What if they have the same relationship with God that I have?

Answering those questions should remind every parent that the behavior we model is more important than the words that we speak. As I’ve reminded myself and others over the years, “Values aren’t taught as much as caught.”

Dr. Chapman is with us on our Focus on the