When my two sons, Trent and Troy, were born, I thought Jean andI would be able to raise them the same way. Boy, was I wrong. When it came to parenting, what worked for Trent didn’t always work for Troy.

Trent and Troy share a lot of the same interests, but spend an afternoon with each of them, and you’ll discover just how different they are. Trent is thoughtful and smart, but sometimes he struggled in school. Troy is competitive but also easygoing. He’s a roll-with-the-punches kind of guy.

I’ve always been amazed that my boys were raised together, in the same home, with the same rules and